实践箴言,生活改变How to Refill an Empty Life(1/2)
Read the article quickly and ahe follog questions.
1. What are the author’s feelgs before he has a religion?
2. What effects do you thk a religion has on people?
One day about fifteen years ago I suddenly ca face to face with yself and realized there was sothg quite epty about y life. My friends and associates perhaps didn’t see it. By the generally aepted standards, I was“suessful”. I was head of a prospero anufacturg n and I led what is ually referred to as an“active”life, both socially andbess. But it didn’t see toto be addg up to anythg. I was gog aroundcircles. I worked hard, pyed hard, and pretty soon I disvered I was hittg the highballs harder than I needed. I wasn’t a didate for Alholionyo, but to be ho with yself I had to adit I was drkg ore than was good for . It ay have been out of sheer boredo.
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It happehat jt at this ti we were havg so bitter fights with the union at our pnt. Then one day it ourred to : What really is their pot of view, and why? I began to see a basis
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But Ispeak with ost authority on how this ge of attitude affectedand y personal outlook on life. Perhaps, aga, any of y friends did not notice the difference.
But I noticed it. That feelg of eptess, to which Icktails out of boredo, was fillg up stead with a purpose: to live a full life with an awareness and an appreciation of other people. I do not pretend for a send that I have suddenly bee a paragon. My faults are still legion and I know the.
But it sees tobetter to have a little religion and practice it than thk pioly and do nothg about it. I feel better adjted, ore ature than I ever havey life before. I have no fear. I say this not boastfully butall huility. The actual application of Christian prciples has ged y life.
大约15年前的一天,我在面对自己时,突然觉得自己的生活很空虚。也许这是朋友和同事所无法理解的。按照公认的标准来看,我是一位“成功者”。我领导着一个生意不错的制造公司,是社交界及商界中的“活跃分子”。然而,对我而言,这些并没有太大的意义。我始终都在圈内转来转去。我努力工作,尽情享乐,但很快就发现自己饮酒过度。虽然我并不准备加入嗜酒者互诫协会,但说真的,我不得不承认自己喝了太多的酒。也许,这是因为我的生活实在太无聊了。
于是,我开始想着去做点什么。突然,我想到或许是由于自己将过多的精力投入工作,却付出了失去最基本精神生活价值的代价。我顿时明白,自己一向都很自私,我只对别人对我意味着什么,作为我的生意伙伴或员工会为我带来什么价值感兴趣,而不在意我对他们而言意义何在。记得孩提时,母亲常告诉我,一位虔诚信徒的人生价值在于他拥有精神的寄托。当时,她还送我去主日学校学习,并鼓励我参加教堂唱诗班。我努力在脑海中回想着《圣经》中的金箴和基督教义中一些最重要的信条。于是,我开始对基督教青年会的工作感兴趣了。凑巧的是,那时我们与工厂工会之间发生了一些尖锐的摩擦。后来的一天,我突然想到:他们真正的观点是什么,为什么会这样?我开始明白他们为何会对我们产生怀疑,并常持敌对态度,于是我决定采取相应的行动。
在处理与员工间的问题时,我们试图将基督教的信条应用甚至照搬到其中,比如说,将金箴中的某些忠告付诸于行动。当人们相信我们的诚意,自然就会作出良好的回应。这种做法痛苦却有所回报。我所说的回报并非金钱,而是人的尊严,是使一个人为他的工作与公司而骄傲。他明白,自己不再是一个微不足道的小齿轮,而是公司中生动鲜活的一分子,公司不会在乎他属于哪个教会,或是肤色深浅。
然而,我可以肯定地说,我和我的人生观正是因这种态度而发生了转变。也许,对于我的变化,多数朋友并没有发现。
但是,我自己注意到了。曾经用酗酒来排遣的空虚感,如今已不复存在,取而代之的是明确
的目标:充实地生活,关注并尊重他人的存在。我并不装做自己立刻成为一个典范,我明白自己依然缺点重重。
但是,在我看来,与其不予行动地虔诚思考,不如拥有一点宗教信仰并将其付诸实践。我感觉,相比以前,自己得到了更好的调整,也更为成熟了。我无所畏惧。我之所以这么说,并非吹嘘,而是满怀谦卑。我的生活也因将基督教信条付诸于实践而发生了改变。
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