自信的力量Confidence（1/2）

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Read the article quickly and ahe follog questions.

1. What are the effects of nfidence?

2.“So guys do you have ityou?”What is“it” this sentence?

Every day is a new dayour life. There is uch to do today. The earlysun spiresto start thgs freshly and put back our past. Only a handful ofake e of this fresh bunch of

energy. In vario walks of life this affects the way we behave and our nfidence level. fidence is a key to

survivethis world. It is the only key tool tothe rat raceevery walk of life. fidenceones oabilities bed with

scere efforts helps oo achieve unthkable heights. But any tis we see that this basic elent of nfidence is issg. As a result of ted or any other reason.

If we look to our hearts and thk, we will e to know that fear sideis gog to getnowhere. The nfidence sideis gog to takepces. This is becae with nfide our thoughts to wordsa better and pleasg way. So we have to get out of that shell where we thk whether people will aeptas we are? Instead of livgthese unendg onts of fear and thoughtless analysis, it is better if we project ourselves with the skills we have with the gloss of nfidence. With nfideray the fer pots of our personalitysuch a way that the pces where we do ck are never highlighted.

fidence should glowonly till the pot where our personality is boosted. Above this it leads to over- is harful.

Over-nfidence resultsunsatisfied perforance levels as the seed of ego grows to a pnt to our d. We then iage and ake big talks jt to ata o. So guys don’t let the seed of ego to gerateyour d, as this seed should be ed only for you to live up to your expectations.

fidence is all about beg ol, cal and posed.

So guys do you have ityou? If you thk you don’t, boost up yourselves as your d is yreatest ntor.You are yreatest helper.

生命中的每一天都是新的，我们有许多事情要在今天做。清晨的阳光激励我们卸下包袱，轻装上路，一切重新开始。但只有少数人能利用这股清新的力量，这对各个行业的人的行为方式和自信程度都有一定影响。自信是你立足于世界的关键，也是取胜于各行各业的关键。真诚努力的自信可以使人达到登峰造极的境界，然而我们却经常看到很多人缺少基本的自信因素。因为没有自信，我们的表现不能真实地展现自己的能力。不管是在公众面前讲话，对爱人表白，还是考大学，或口试、面试，甚至在考试之前都如此。这些都可能是因为害怕被拒绝。

若洞察了自己的心灵和思维，就会发现内心的恐惧会让我们一事无成，而满怀自信则会战无不胜。这是因为自信能使我们更淋漓尽致地表达自己的思想，所以我们没必要总担心会得不到别人的接受与肯定。与其生活在无尽的恐惧和粗略的分析中，不如满怀自信，凭借我们的技能尽力打造自己。拥有自信，我们能将自己真实的一面精彩地展示出来，同时有效地弥补缺憾。

我们的自信应该随着个性的张扬程度适时而止，过度的自信是有害的。

当“自负”的种子植根于心间，过分自信就总是令人不满。而后我们会展开想象的翅膀，甚至用说大话来保持自我形象。所以切勿让“自负”的种子植根于你的头脑，只有当你希望实

现自己的期望值时，才可以植入。

自信就要冷静、沉着而镇定。

你心里拥有这些因素吗？如果你觉得没有，就该给自己鼓劲，因为只有心灵才是你的良师益友。你才是自己最大的救星。

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